10 dating rules for guys
What is the Dutch men dating culture or how should you approach Dutch women?Here are 10 things you should you know about Dutch women and Dutch men before entering the Dutch dating game.
Don’t take it personally if your date shows up in sneakers or arrives at a fancy event in jeans.
To the untrained dater it may appear rude or direct but it is a refreshing scene of playing with your cards on the table.
Being successful in Dutch dating can require a level of assertiveness: if you want something, just do it.
Playing hard-to-get and silly games have little value in the Netherlands but confidence and being to-the-point rank high.
Of course, you might get a flat-out rejection but you won’t waste your time where it’s not appreciated.
Reaching a serious relationship level can take time in the Netherlands because the Dutch can be cautious with letting newcomers in, whether it’s a friendship or partnership – this is not necessarily personal as much as it is part of common Dutch personality traits.