Be friends first before dating
Dating a guy for a month and I asked him yesterday what he is looking for.He told me that he wants to be friends first, take things slowly until he is sure that he is ready for a relationship.I think two months is plenty of time to get a real feel for things without fully "trying on" the relationship/exclusivity.Also, never invest more in someone than they invest in you. I am not dating anyone else, mainly because I don't have the time to date multiple people and tend to prefer to just date one person that I like and see where that goes. I completely understand him not wanting to jump into being exclusive immediately but I don't want to just be a filler until he finds someone he really is ga-ga over. I suppose men can be different, but he seems to be a wee bit too sensitive based on what you are saying.It sounds to me like you aren't very special to him.When a guy meets a girl he "likes" he will do anything to be with her.He honestly sounds like a sincere and sensitive man very worthy of investing time in.
(I have not been pressuring him into a relationship BTW) He says that he likes me and it is not that he is unsure of me, but he needs to be sure of what he is ready for.He keeps asking me out and we have a great time when we are together.He has introduced me to his friends and seems interested in meeting my family.I didn't necessarily grow up speaking any language other than English. I'll expect you to pick up a few words of said language if you don't know it already. You'll never be able to get to the check faster than I can! My parents will immediately reject you as a suitor. And don't ask me what that sign says because I probably don't know. But I most likely know how to speak a language other than English. How else are we supposed to talk about other people in public? My parents programmed every second of my life before it was cool for parents to do that. In fact, they'll probably continue trying to set me up with their friends' sons. They might not think you're husband material (yet), but they will like you more if you eat. Actually, just be willing to eat everything when you're around me.
He told me about a relationship he had with a girl that lasted 7 months.