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Is your system based on what your mom or dad taught you that you boys do?
Is it left-over from a list you devised in college, or even high school?
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When you’re done I’d love you to leave me a comment here. Did you find areas where you can be more accepting and things you can add to your list of realistic expectations?
Are you giving men points for fancy, surface-y, bullshit-y actions and taking points away for insignificant acts?
Could it be possible that you mistake men’s intentions or misunderstand some of their actions?
The belief in modern dating is that relationships should happen naturally.
And that may be the very thing that is keeping you single. [If you’re short of time click here and jump to a super juicy training I recorded for you.] The expectations can just as easily muck up a relationship. (If you’re questioning whether you do this, think about the conversations you have with your girlfriends after a date. ) It only takes a few minus points to send us running from a man that we just met or just started dating. Once introduced into the complicated dating mix, our disappointment ultimately sabotages any chance of things ending well. Because with these false expectations in the way, women are missing REAL gifts that so many men are out there waiting to give.
It’s my observation, and I think many women will confirm this observation, that niceness showed to them by men always seems to come with some form of expectations attached.
To make matters worse, those expectations are never quite clear. Will he become angered if he doesn’t get whichever one of these things he wants?
If you missed it, here are the links: Part 1: Are You Waiting for Some Type of Fantasy Man?
Part 2: Should You Trust Your Instincts About Dating and Love?