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Dating dynamics are always interesting to observe, especially the variances in how different cultures or people in different locations perceive certain behaviors or unwritten rules.
In China, a currently trending topic is that of the “easy girl,” referring to a certain perception that local girls (commonly those in East and Southeast Asian countries) favor foreign men.
Never mind that the BBC video in question is actually titled “How Not To Date A Chinese Girl,” and is a satirical take on, well, what white men should not do if they want to date a Chinese girl.
Most people are at least superficially aware of the stereotypes associated with Chinese men and women.
Even the poorest of us will at least have a classy home in the Western city of choice whether it's Paris, London, Melbourne, New York or Vancouver.
At the top of the spectrum, dating a Chinese guy sometimes means flying in their family's private jet or sailing in their mega yachts.
Somewhere through your childhood, you had some bad experiences where a white woman turned you down, VICIOUSLY stomped all over your heart and you’ve been scarred from that moment onwards.
Your close group of yellow brothers banded around you in defiant support of the devastation and pain inflicted upon you with comforting words like: And from there, your lifelong limiting belief was formed.
Your beliefs are formed with evidence and they’re only going to be changed with evidence.It sometimes feels like the fact that an interracial relationship can exist at all is a reason for anger.“BBC actually made a video on how to date Chinese girls, netizens outraged,” reads a headline on a piece in Sina.This was a subject that interested me because it has come up in many personal discussions with friends both in and out of China and of varying cultural backgrounds.I had a lunchtime discussion with another self-media personality — someone intimately engaged in the world of Chinese social media — on the cultural weight and importance of this topic.
I suppose, as a Chinese American, I’ve always been aware of the stereotype of the appeal (or lack thereof) of Chinese men; the idea that Chinese girls are “easy” is the flip side of this coin — it’s a misogynistic and dangerous idea, yes, but we can’t ignore that it exists.