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Attention from upperclassmen is surely a plus in any freshman’s book, because they’re seasoned.
They know what’s up in this whole college world, and it can be quite nice to have a hot, older guy show you the ropes – he’ll let you know what parties are happening, bring you to date parties, introduce you to his friends and be a pretty face to show up in your tagged pictures on Facebook.
It’s not fair to the guy if you’re just not that into him, but you keep him around because he’s, like, obsessed with you.
The puppy dog thing will get old after a while, leaving him feeling stupid/angry and you feeling unfulfilled, annoyed and guilty – not to mention that other guys you might actually become interested in will get the wrong idea.
Just because he’s lent you a bunch of attention one night, don’t assume that he’ll be chasing after you for the rest of the semester.
That is, of course, presuming that dates aren’t obsolete anymore.
To get started, Her Campus has put together a list of the DOs and DON’Ts of college dating.
Know your boundaries and ask him—whether you know him well or not—to respect your boundaries. There are always the guys that have no qualms about coming in between a group of girl friends just to get some action.Most of the time, dance-floor make-outs (DFMO’s) start and finish on the dance floor and only go as far as a phone number swap.Take these experiences for what they are, and don’t think he’s fallen in love with you simply because he’s been attached to your mouth all night.Hooking up with one or two of your hallmates within the first few days of school, however, is a definite no-no.When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.
Here are the guidelines of how to deal with the ones who are, and the ones who aren’t. These guys will be super fun to hang out with once they get to know each other well, and you’ll be the cool girl who can get in on that action when you need a break from girl drama.