Dating a guy with roommates
At least, at that point, your roommate has the option to delude themselves into thinking you and Mr. Handy earplugs are a good preventative measure because sometimes people get drunk and forget all the rules—however, that doesn't make your early-morning presentation disappear. Or better yet (and yes, this is a personal anecdote), with a small small small towel hastily draped across a drooping boner—especially if there's only one bathroom in the living space.This way you can catch adequate shut-eye without having to corral cats (i.e., explain any basic concept to wasted people). Your roommate almost definitely does not want or need to see that and if that isn't true, YOU definitely don't want or need to know that.Of course, there's always the option to hunt out sex partners who live alone (aka, my strategy for all of my mid-20s) and just get down at their place, but what about all your things?I mean, unless they keep an extra pack of make-up remover wipes and an arsenal of your preferred condom variety, it's kinda easier to keep it local at your place.Also, it's pretty rude to remind your roommate they're not currently getting laid, and even if they are (that's some synchronization, bb), don't distract them with your own bedroom adventures. Rubbing bare genitals on the kitchen counter is not only in poor taste, it also spreads weird germs and...liquids...around in a very unsanitary way.It's also a little questionable to stuff organs in another person on a communal couch.Here's some super vital rules all roommates should follow with sex in your shared home: This isn't just confined to moaning and groaning, although obviously that's important to keep fairly quiet too, especially depending on the apartment floor plan or general wall width.No one wants to be chillin', preparing a nice macaroni-for-one and hear you or your partner bellowing dirty talk in a way that doesn't leave a lot of mystery.
The answer should be “yes.” Do you want to hear her having an orgasm at 3 a.m.
The idea of having roommates makes total sense when you consider the concept of splitting costs and chores and satisfying the need for human interaction.
However, it certainly can make some aspects of life tricky.
First, you gotta get to know your roommates, at least a little bit.
Then you have to stop being polite and start being real.
(Yes, I just quoted The Real World.) Part of being real includes getting laid.