Dating a separated man 20
Love is when TWO people are committed to each other by choice every single day, not when one person has tingly thoughts and can’t let go of a complicated situation. I couldn’t tell you if he’s going to go back to his wife, move out, or how quickly he’ll be able to move on.
I can tell you that these are decisions that are dependent on what’s right for HIM, not what’s right for YOU.
His wife knows all about me, but he went away with her to see her family (a “goodbye” type of situation) during my birthday weekend.
Just like how you’ve dated your share of challenging types of men like the disappearing/reappearing Pinger, the Couch Potato, and the older-and-balder-than-his-profile-guy…men meet and enter into relationships with less-than-impressive types of women.
I’ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in midlife and beyond.
– Either because of the circumstances or because of your natural disposition, you acted anxious and needy.
– Your insecurity either suffocated him or pushed him away to the point that he was willing to break up with you.