Dating close guy friend
You get to see him as the man he truly is – an unguarded version of himself that he hides from the world and only seems to let you see. So why, in the midst of this seemingly perfect situation, aren’t you any more than friends?Or worse, why (when you told him how you felt about him) does he say, “I really love you.Problem is, your feelings for him and what your relationship are just an illusion.
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Of course, you could just decide to give up and find another guy that appreciates you exactly as you are. So let’s talk about the game-plan (and I’m going to warn you, I’m not sugarcoating this – it’s a blunt, no-punches-pulled guide)… It’s not fair, we didn’t choose our biological/sexual makeup – it is what it is.
The sooner that you can accept that guys respond to the physical appearance of women, the sooner you can use it to your advantage. in case your head is not computing that I’m telling you to date other men in an article about getting out of the friend zone with your guy friend…
She attracted him and in some way made it clear (usually without a word) that if he wants her, he needs to act now or lose his shot. hint) 2) He knows he can put up a front and the new girl will buy it… But with you, you Sometimes a guy just wants a vacation from himself and his problems.
It’s amazing how quickly a man will get his act together when he believes he might lose his shot at something. Sure, these arrangements usually end up melting down (maybe in a week, a month or a year), but during that time he gets to postpone dealing with his issues and can numb his pain with a simple girl who doesn’t unearth any skeletons … 3) The new girl had the advantage of a fresh “mystique” – that is, he doesn’t know anything about her and she put up a dazzling image that completely seduced him.
And by the time they’re in your life, they have a lot of unclaimed baggage that they have yet to resolve.