Dating guy getting divorced
I tend to forget anything negative, and live with the falseness of remembering that everything was perfect. I always want to be available for advice and help but think i got nothing left in the tank to play grandpa. I have ask my wife several times for us to get some counseling. Her comment was, I have to have too much invested in this marriage to give you a divorce.People who do that are just torturing themselves unnecessarily. The day your child lands a job after college is almost as sweet as they day they were born! She refused , I then said your making good money and you should save some for retirement. I can’t tell you how I felt like nothing more than some kind of I mention she makes more money than me know for he past 4 years.I am divorced and have been for two years and am of the opinion that there is too much other stuff going on in one’s life during a divorce to date, as well.Also, it seems that about 40% of the men who state they are divorced are actually still going through the process. That stated, I have come up to some heavy objection from both family and friends – hence I’m here. All of my single friends; both men and women have met someone. My marriage is good enough, but we are just going through motions to finish the job and it's been extremely boring and predictable for long time now. After 50, the stages of growth bring deeper happiness. It is a very narrow band to operate in and may be flat out impossible. Reply 52yo married male with sons in early 20's that will likely never leave the nest and a wife that is not helping.
So having trust in a new relationship is far from my thoughts moving forward.They have given many examples of relationships that began quickly after a separation/break-up, so I am beginning to wonder if I am selling myself short – being too rigid.As a dating coach/expert, what do you think of the idea of dating someone who is still in the process of divorce?Do you advise your clients to take the date or run as quick as possible?Any advice would be wonderful- thanks in advance for your response!
I’m heading into the permanent separation stage with the outcome being divorce. However, she does not want to proceed until my divorce is finalized. Should I forget about her or text her from time to time?