Dating thialand girls
In fact, approaching someone in public is not common — and even frowned upon — in a culture where people are not expected to engage with strangers and can now keep their noses glued to their smartphones in public.
But by avoiding that kind of small talk, the chances of finding love outside their social circles is very slim and leaves them with a tiny dating pool.
She thinks that her appearance doesn’t live up to society’s definition of beauty, making it even more difficult for her to date. The fact that I realize this makes me limit myself from going after someone,” she said.
“I texted my friend the first day I saw him in class that I liked this guy, but I didn’t even think about speaking to him until he asked me out,” Ying said.
“It’s not that I try to be a traditional Thai lady.
Pang, 28, works in the Thai military, is taller than most Thai men, and of a medium build.
She didn’t date at all during her four years in college, but when she was shipped off to military training in the US, where people are generally more open about appearances, she finally clicked with someone — actually, more than one.
She sent a message, the kind that has appeared in many thousands of all-girl chats throughout history: “Girls, what should I do? I remember receiving eerily similar messages from my childhood friends, high-school friends, and even former colleagues — poorly taken photos of guys with hopeful captions that illustrate their anticipation and excitement at the possibility of romance — but most of the time, those feelings are left unspoken.