The right victims are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic.
They are often isolated or unhappy, or can easily be made so—for the completely contented person is almost impossible to seduce.
Mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what your are really up to.
Important things happen when your targets are alone: The slightest feeling of relief that you are not their, and it is all over.
Send mixed signals: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthly, both innocent and cunning.
Create such a power by hinting at something contradictory within you.
Few are drawn to the person whom others avoid or neglect; people gather around those who have already attracted interest.
Doing something they do not expect from you will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity—they will not be able to foresee what comes next. Give the victim a thrill with a sudden change of direction.
It is hard to make people listen; they are consumed with their own thoughts and desires, and have little time for yours.
Familiarity and overexposure will cause the reaction. Intrigue your targets by alternating an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberate moments followed by calculated absences.