I was dating a married man polyamorous online dating
No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the tire tread on the family car to avoid accidents.A few years ago, while living in London, I dated married men for companionship while I processed the grief of being newly divorced. When I created a profile on Tinder and Ok Cupid, saying I was looking for no-strings-attached encounters, plenty of single men messaged me and I got together with several of them. After being married for 23 years, I wanted sex but not a relationship. I wanted to make sure they had no interest in leaving their wives or otherwise threatening all they had built together.”I never convinced any husband that he could be honest about what he was doing.But they were mostly good-natured about it, like a patient father responding to a child who keeps asking, “Why, why, why?Others I texted or talked with, which sometimes felt nearly as intimate.Before I met each man I would ask: “Why are you doing this? What surprised me was that these husbands weren’t looking to have more sex. I met one man whose wife had implicitly consented to her husband having a lover because she was no longer interested in sex, at all.
I know I did, which is what led me down this path of illicit encounters.