Missed the boat dating
I doubt it has only to do with being a hard body, because there are tons of ladies in their 30 and 40's who have better bodies than the muffin topped 20 year olds I see today.Perhaps your interest stems from your lack of experience, and a genuine fear that women who are in your age group would want to have nothing to do with someone like yourself.I don't think there are many people on this planet who claim the early 20's were the best time of their life.I think real life starts somewhere around 26, so end 20's 'til early 40's are probably the best time,imo. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .Stop thinking about the things you might have missed. The issue is with me, as I missed out on all the early social skills you are meant to pick up, is it's not easy for me just to go to a bar/club I can access on my own (being in your early 20s doesn't mean you have to be rolling in it so I can fit in those clubs), especially since all the depressive emotions of regret and depression actually surface as soon as I approach that environment.
I would guarantee, that once you are capable, that the jones' for that flavor will wane. Dude there is no boat to miss, get your life together first (Well at least somewhat, I never have my life totaly together but I have still worked it out sort of). The harder you try and the more desparate you are the less chances you have. The issue is with me, as I missed out on all the early social skills you are meant to pick up, is it's not easy for me just to go to a bar/club I can access on my own (being in your early 20s doesn't mean you have to be rolling in it so I can fit in those clubs), Well because at one point in my life this was normal, and I don't exactly warm to the idea of trying to pick up women on the street.I'd like to be able to go out on the town have fun and pick up girls as many of my friends did when the time was right to do so.besides I don't believe that you lack social skills. The problem is, 30 year old professional women aren't going to be hanging out at the sort of bars I can access because I'm fresh out of 'prison' so to speak no career and no money, so for those women I have nothing to offer and am completely off putting.You made it to 30, so you definitely developed some social skills. All my friends just don't go out anymore - most of them are getting married or already are, so I have no one to go out with.
Unfortunately, once you become that guy, you aren't going to really be interested in women who are 19-24 anymore.