Tips for dating a younger girl
In extreme cases these guys invade the clubs or college campuses to hit on younger women where they often look woefully out of place.
While there are always unusual exceptions to every rule, this approach does not work.
By the way, I think society downplays the awesome superpowers a man has when he’s both older older men really do rule the roost in a very real way. Mistake Number 4: Being Limited By Your Own Societal Programming Some older guys who would really like to date younger women, and be good for them, stop themselves because they have thoughts like… You are always 100% honest with her, and are not lying to her or leading her on.
There is absolutely nothing wrong, immoral, or unethical about dating a much younger woman provided these three things are true: 1. If you’re being completely, 100% honest with her, and she’s willing, and she’s legal, go for it. There is nothing wrong or evil or immoral about it.
(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a .
Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.
You take care of your physical appearance more than you did when you were a younger dude. I’ve made numerous posts about this lately, so click around this blog and take a look at a few if you have not read them yet. This does not mean you need to look like George Clooney.
These women will be more than happy to sleep with a much older man. So I dress a little classier, talk a little slower, drop the energy level down just a little, talk more about the wisdom I’ve learned over the years, and exhibit other older-guy behaviors.
In other words, all the things you would never do if you were on a date with an over-33 woman (because then she’ll shove you in Make Him Wait zone).
Mistake Number 2: Acting Like A Creepy Older Man, i.e.
Even if you think she might consider what you’re doing “creepy”, you need to go for it.
That doesn’t mean you cross the line, but it does mean you are very aggressive, and err on the side of “creepy” rather than “nice guy”.
It fails for a very simple reason: The younger men their own age.