Welthy women dating
A woman who says she’s dated her fair share of millionaires spoke to News Corp Australia candidly about the ups and downs of entering a relationship for money – and warned you better be prepared to be “submissive”, expect competition and don’t try to make the men change.
Tracey (not her real name) started dating wealthy men in her social circle when she was 19 and later via date-a-millionaire-specific websites The university student from Queensland says she is attracted to wealthy men because she never has to worry about paying the bills.
“People that have made their own money often possess the characteristics that I like in a man – they are successful, driven and motivated.” Throughout the conversation, Tracey shows no sign of guilt or shame for her actions because, as she explained, she makes her true intentions known. Interestingly, while many of the men appear to be after surface attributes like looks, Tracey says nearly all of the men she sees go into the relationships hoping to fall in love – and that’s where they get let down.
“I guess they know, but I’m really upfront; I tell them ‘if you can’t support me, I can’t support you’. “That’s what they don’t like, that I’m not in love with them,” she says.
And it comes as no surprise that physical attributes are top of the priority list.
“Everyone is different, with money or not, but men with money are always at social outings so looking good and being presentable is definitely an attribute,” Tracey said.
“If you are with men with money there’s always going to be competition, that’s the number one thing to remember,” she said.
Perhaps the most disturbing aspect of dating a rich man, as experienced by Tracey, is they expect their woman to do as she is told to.
“I go in with the hope of falling in love, yes, of course everyone wants the full package, whether you get it depends, but that changes every day.
Thankfully, according to experts, the answer is NO.
Relationships Australia director of operations NSW Lyn Fletcher said while money can ease financial pressure in a relationship it does not make up for everything.
“I can’t stand the neediness, quite often they are in need of attention, that gets to me a little bit, and it’s always them calling the shots so you have to be submissive,” she said.
“I put up with it even though it’s not the person I am.” However she says there is a slight difference between self-made millionaires and ready-made millionaires.